a girl at my workplace is always gossiping about her relationships. at this point she already had 50+ guys and she is only 28 years old.
and every guy she meets, she has something to complain about. its funny to listen to her but i wonder what type of guy she is searching when she has problems with 50+ guys. does she want a superman who is perfect in every way?
i dont think that she will find one.
but in general in my experience, girls are way worse when it comes to gossip. if you want the whole company to know something, just tell it to a girl :P
to answer your question: why do girls have to be this way?
i think it is hardwired into their brains. girls in general search for perfection in every way. a man has to be perfect.
for most guys, the girl either has to have big boobs or a big ***...generally speaking. for a girl the guy has to be superman. he has to be intelligent, he has to look good, he has to be kind but not too nice, because nobody wants nice guys, he has to be successful and funny and he should be soft but hard at the same time :P
girls look for mr perfect. absolute perfection. thats why they complain always, because in this world, nothing is really perfect, but they search for perfection.